A simple way to solve the "DO OVER" blues.

Do you ever want a DO OVER on yesterday, on a conversation, on an interview or meeting?

Unless you can time travel, it's not always possible. Try this instead.

The LBNT model:

LIKE BEST + NEXT TIME

Start by asking yourself "what did I LIKE BEST about the situation?" and create your list of everything you did right.

Then, ask yourself "What will I do differently NEXT TIME?" and create suggested actions, behaviors, reactions that you'd like to implement.

The beauty of this model? It's not a pro/con list where you beat yourself up. Its a positive/action focused list where you celebrate what worked and determine corrective actions to take for next time.

Try it today... after a meeting, a call or interaction. On your way home, assess how your entire day was. Use it at the dinner table tonight with the family or friends.

Whether you write your LBNT down in your journal, your agenda or just think about it, it will change your perspective.